just got back from work...
full time jobs are no fun at all... can't wait to go back to school
if you want to find out where I work and all the great adventures I have at work you can email me at firstname.lastname@example.org
I am more protective about revealing too much information on the blog which might ultimately give away my whole identity...
So there has been a lot of things on my mind lately...
gay people...specifically gay men.
it seems that it is a very difficult thing to be a gay man in today's world. Everything and everybody seems so superficial. Gay men especially. In the world of gay men, influenced by media and porn, we have to be hot and muscular in order to be attractive. There seems to be a lot of pressure placed on the way we should look. I am all for hot guys with hot bodies. However, I also know that there exists a lot of more important qualities that exist deep within the skin. A guy can be hot but if he is conceited and rude, I will never love or like him. I'd have to say that for me, personality is a very big factor in who I like. I like guys who are sweet (I think a mama's boy is adorable), loving, romantic, laid back, FUNNY (A HUGE PLUS), determined, tolerant, accepting, intelligent and just down to earth. I like a guy who wants to go out and have fun but at the same time wants to stay home, snuggle and watch movies all night long. I want a guy who will hold me in his arms and never let me go... except for the occasional bathroom breaks, etc. I love guys WHO DON'T TRY. Groom yourself but don't forget there's a whole world out there to explore...don't be too obsessed about how many times you have to pluck your eyebrows to keep them nicely shaped. I will be quite forgiving to a guy who might have an untamed and bushy eyebrow but goes out there and makes other people smile. Man, am I idealistic or what?
Just want a sweet and caring guy...I can go on forever but I will leave that till next time.
The underlying point is...
as gay men we face a lot of prejudice, discrimination and intolerance.
However, after all this segregation we face...we seem to do it to each other by emphasizing appearance over personality.
when will we learn...beauty is only skin deep (very cliche, I know).
Well, just a quick rant :]
once again from Post Secret: